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Regarding Competition

Some, over the years, have said competition is a bad thing because little Johnny or Suzy get their feelings hurt. The instance given is the game Musical Chairs; all of the kids are running around then one doesn’t make it to a chair and “loses,” there is only one “winner.” What a sad way to look at such a fun game and what sheer contempt for something that is naturally created inside us.

Let’s go back to the game of Musical Chairs. Suzy just lost. What has she been taught at home? That “winning is everything!” or to join with the other kids and have FUN? Or have her parents left it up for her to learn that other kids can be real creeps and she just has to get over it? Actually, the last one, hopefully paired with the first one would be a good way to teach lessons about her upcoming life and how she may have to deal with adults who never learned how to be good people.

All of this comes down to:Competition is GOOD! But winning is not about getting first place! First place is great, but that’s all there is once you’ve achieved it and you have to do it all over again. Winning is about doing your personal best with what you have to work with (time, resources and education) and the feeling of pride that comes from doing your best. Once you place your emphasis on only winning, you’ve already lost.

Merry Christmas 2011.

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A Meeting of Great Minds

My son, Bryent, and I spent time with Eron “Spinsane” Fayson in Columbia, SC where Eron and Bryent live. After a nice lunch and much talk, all three of us went to Eron’s house to see the progress he’s made for his 2012 routine. Eron, who is very interested in Composition Analysis, has done a great job on routine construction and executing what he’s developed so far. I had some ideas that I threw out which worked very well and Bryent (a Driller his freshman year in high school in early 2000) even added his take on certain segments which added to the rich interaction that was going on. All three of us were able to collaborate and add some great moments to Eron’s routine. Bryent and I wish him and his family great blessings in the coming year and hope that he, above all, enjoys drilling with other world-class competitors!